Should I break up?
58%
aligned
1/6
#N/A
You seem pulled between staying for stability and curiosity about something new, which may explain why your gut says you do not want to break up even as you list clear reasons to consider leaving. You might be experiencing an approach-avoidance conflict where both staying and leaving have meaningful costs and benefits right now.
2/6
60%
Mental alignment score (percentage): 60%
3/6
#N/A
Your personality profile (high worry, moderate enthusiasm and criticalness, low self-discipline, high helpfulness and achievement orientation) may mean you would over-index on analyzing problems and under-index on sustained follow-through for a breakup plan, which could produce paralysis rather than a clean choice. Your values (strong helpfulness, achievement, personal freedom, social justice) and partial overlap with your partner (agreement on family, health, relationships but not on money or spirituality) suggest value misfit in key domains, and you may do best deciding after clarifying which values you will not compromise on.
4/6
55%
Physical alignment score (percentage): 55%
Here's a couple other options if you’d rather go a different route:
5/6
Dissatisfaction with sex and boredom are reliable predictors of relationship dissolution in the literature, so your low sexual satisfaction combined with having met someone else may increase the likelihood that leaving would address unmet intimacy and novelty needs.
Given you reported being physically exhausted but mentally okay on 2025-11-14 and that you cannot afford to break up today, the immediate context may favor postponing an irreversible move until you are rested and have a financial plan.