Should I break up?
84%
aligned
1/6
#N/A
You seem likely to be better off ending the relationship right now given persistent boredom, misaligned core values, low kindness and a new attractive alternative which signal unmet needs. This assessment may reflect your strong drive for stimulation, achievement, pleasure and personal freedom which could be systematically frustrated by the current dynamics despite costs like loneliness and financial strain.
2/6
86%
Mental alignment : 86%.
3/6
#N/A
You have very high worry alongside high openness and adaptability which may mean you crave novelty while also fearing the uncertainty of leaving, a pattern attachment theory would flag as anxious tension. Your value profile (very high achievement, stimulation, pleasure and freedom) may make routine or constrained partnerships feel particularly costly and could explain why boredom and a new interest are salient. You and your partner align on family and health but diverge on money and spirituality which from a value-alignment perspective could predict chronic friction and unmet needs. Given you are physically exhausted but mentally clear right now, decision heuristics suggest delaying irreversible financial moves until you have resources, although emotionally acting sooner may be reasonable if safety, respect and sexual compatibility cannot be restored.
4/6
34%
Physical alignment : 34%.
5/6
Here's a couple other options if you’d rather go a different route:
You report sexual dissatisfaction and feeling not treated with respect and kindness which may mean physical and emotional intimacy are insufficient to sustain the partnership, consistent with research on sexual compatibility and relational satisfaction.
Even though you feel able to share secrets and perceive partner commitment, persistent low everyday kindness and unreliable advice may erode intimacy over time.
6/6
Social alignment : 72%.
